i am different

Do you think you are different.

What if i tell you...

this very thought makes you "the same".
and it makes you so "same" that
if there were a religion called "i think i am different" there really would have been one god.
if there were a country called "i think i am different" there would have been no boundaries.
if there were an operating system called "i think i am different" there would have been only one set of download for any application.

Thinking yourself as different is one of the mistake we as human commonly make and at the same time thinking yourself same as other is also a mistake. Paradox is it ? ...

The origin of the hatred comes from fact that you think the ones you hate are different than you. Because you cannot hate yourself , can you...
The guy who cuts you on the road, the guy arguing illogically on the TV debate, your boss, the guy trying to cheat you on the street, if you look closely they all are not very different. Just that they had different lives.  The life you are going through is what makes you. The more you understand the fact that everyone is the same , the faster you will learn to stop hating someone just because he seems different and completely opposite of you and will may be understand the reasoning behind the way he is acting(even stupid or ignorant). I think the biggest culprit is prejudice. Prejudice towards a set of people belonging to a particular region/ cast / or economic background.
Imagine you were 100% prejudice free, you would only hate that particular person individually than making an opinion about the whole community with few sample points. In the prejudice free world no amount of sample points are enough to generalize any statement and everything is about what you actual deal with, personally. That automatically decreases the number of people you hate in the world and increases the number of people you know nothing about. This gives you all the more reasons to go and experience more instead of trying to draw that polygon of hatred with few sample points. Experience more is the key to learn more about the world and make an opinion individually and not generically.Travel,they say, is the best way to create more experiences in unit time.

The other end of the spectrum also is problem when you think there is nothing different about you. Now if you see biologically no two persons are the same , not even twins. Everyone is different and special in their own way. What one can or cannot do , cannot be generalized to tell if the other person can or cannot do because all the parameters are not the same. The actor has changed which could make all the difference to the outcome of an event.

So thinking yourself the same as other and different from others at the same time, can be taken positively.

define un-wanted

Appreciating something,,, what does that mean?

When you like to appreciate something.
Do you really like it because it the way it is , or you like it because you took a while to understand it and by appreciating the thing you are actually applauding yourself for understanding it.
It is often confusing,
I am sure some kind of research can prove that , the more time it takes for you to understand something, the more you are likely to appreciate it later , after you have completely understood it.
This gives a path to create likable content. :-)

SARCASM !!! defined

It seems today,
all you see,
is violence on movies and sex  on TV,
where are all those good old fashioned values
on which we used to rely..

Lucky theres a family guy....
Lucky there a man who
Positively can do all the things that make us
laugh and cry
Hes
our
family
guy...

A pain of its kind

You like this new girl in your office. She looks pretty and has just the right kind of dressing sense.You do your little bit of research and find out that shes smart too. Deadly combo isn't it?
You just cant stop thinking about her.She seems so fine that it actually makes you doubt if you really deserve her.The evil you says yes .
Every time you pass by her or she is in vicinity ,you find yourself so helpless that it brings out a smile from within.The kind of smile you get when you are high. "The helpless and know why" smile.And then somewhere somehow something tells you that she is aware of this whole situation because its seems so "obvious" and you are just a move away.
Shes usually seen with a bunch of her team mates.You notice them and scrutinize each of the male characters for any possibility of a clash of interest and finally convince yourself of a negative report.You notice that you like to talk about her too and everyone s around you are so full of ideas and suggestions. Outside you just laugh about it but inside you choose.You plan. A mix of suggestions and what you have in your mind.
Days pass.
Now she is seen with this new guy more often than 'normal'.
Ever felt that pain?

:-)

Is any situation any better?

Two guys working in the same company,doing the same kind of job.

Guy A is all enthusiastic and interested types and Guy B just does it for the heck of it.

Unfortunate?
Guy A,being active himself seeing his colleague working at the same level ,drawing the same benefits even with the opposite attitude
or
Guy B,who is already doing something he is not enjoying plus he has a colleague to be jealous of who seems to be enjoying the same work they are doing.

lucky?
Guy A ,At least he is getting to do what he likes
or
Guy B who is relieved to find out that being interested and enjoying your job doesn't really pay.So he is not really losing anything.

Point :-)

"She sells sea shells on the sea shore"

But...
Why would she sell sea shells on the sea shore?